Wrong Focus

Seringkali ..
Always ..
Selalunya ..
Many times ..

In life we always wrong focus.  When there is a conflict, the best things to do is to settle the conflict as fast as we can and to control the condition to ensure it doesn't grows big and worst. But instead of doing so, we make the condition worst and bad. Why?

Because we didn't focus on settling the problem@conflict. We argue and argue. We keep on argue without Think. 

Why it happened?

How it happened?

What is the solution to solve it?

When there is an opportunity to solve it, we did not take the right action. We stayed back, believing our action is right. And the situation goes worst .. even worst then before because the opportunity given was not taken. Double mistake!!